Dear Survivor:

Let's start with something your mother probably told you: More important than good looks is personality. I've said it before and I'll say it again, at a certain level decisions are based on chemistry as much as competence. "There is no surprise that a person the manager likes has a better chance," says William Roiter, who counsels executives who have to make these decisions.

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